There’s a strange saying going around my house. Perhaps you may have heard it too? It sounds a bit whiny and even nasal at times. It’s often followed by a gasp, annoyed intonation or a rolling of the eyes. Yes, you guessed it, it sounds like this: “But I don’t feel like it! ”This exacerbated adolescent response to just about anything from picking up socks, feeding the dog, taking out the garbage or doing homework seems to be a staple for today’s teenager. Similar to the “terrible two’s” when every request is followed by an accentuated “No! ” yet strangely unattractive coming from an over-sized child. Not sure how this happened, but very sure that “not feelinglike it” is an epidemic amongst kids this age who, for one reason or another, want “to feel” rather than “do!”My friend, whose ancestors come from Ghana and who was raised in England, is quite baffled by the typical American teenager. This high emotional intelligence seems to trump all other things, especially anything requiring the least bit of effort. Why these same kids who are quick to diagnose fellow studentswith “anger issues” or “ADD/ADHD” or “depression” but can’t get a simple task done without “feeling like it” first, is a mystery to me!